I just got through watching the video for Rihanna's new song, "We Found Love" and it got me thinking about myself. In the beginning of the video there is a short monologue with a woman.
It's like screaming and no one can hear//You always feel ashamed that someone can be that important//that without them you feel like nothing//No one will ever understand how much it hurts//You feel hopeless like nothing can save you//and when it's over and it's gone//you almost wish you could have all that bad stuff back so that you could have the good.
Sometimes we "fall in love" and stay around in relationships for ALL of the wrong reasons. Sometimes we think it's love but most of the times it's by force of habit. You just got way too accustomed to this person in your life that no matter how hard you tried to let them go it was just too hard to. You've been with them for so long that everything just starts to become a blur. You go through the same motions every year around the same times, break up and then get back together a few months later. Say the same hurtful things, apologize and then hope it'll be different this time around..
But is this really love or a bad habit?
Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit.
Peter Ustinov
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